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First, ask yourself, what is currently working in your intimate life?
Praise what is going well. Spend some time praising your lover. For example:
- "You get me so hot when you lick my ear/come up behind me and nuzzle my shoulder/walk around in a towel/wear good undies/___________."
- "I want to make sure you know that I think you are the sexiest person ever."
- "I like pleasuring you. It's the most fun I can think of."
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Remember, these are compliments. Give them freely, lavishly, lovingly, without expectations.
Next time, I'll tell you how to gather those compliments together and write a super duper love letter.
Go out there and get thinking about love, sex, and pleasure!